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I know no birth control is 100% perfect. But if you do try to be safe, check everything why some couples end up pregnant, even when they try not to?

Well, again, no method of contraception is 100% effective.

As an example, the pill, used typically (as it often will be in a year), is around 91% effective. That means 9 out of every hundred people using that method become pregnant each year. That adds up to a lot of people. Dual contraception and/or long-term methods (like the IUD) are what prevents pregnancy best, but many people don't use dual contraception or long-term methods.

Plus (and this is only a partial list):
• many people don't use contraception, even though they don't want to become pregnant, and that includes people who don't have any access, or reliable access to methods of contraception
• some people become pregnant via abuse or assault
• some people think they know how to use a method, but aren't actually using it correctly
• some people don't use contraception because they actually want to be pregnant, but then their circumstances change in a way that result in a pregnancy being unwanted

In other words, lots of reasons.

Thank you so much! I thought that maybe something "magical" happened like semen leaking from the base of the Condom even if it didn't break. Or people lying about what they did sexually.
If I have another question can I ask it here, or should I write a new one?

No magic in any of this, just biology and circumstance.

Here's fine for something additional.

Perfect thank you so much again!!
I've been having mild cramps for the last 2 days, may period comes next week (thursday) I did have protected sex about 5 days ago. I was wondering if it might be connected or it might be a whole different thing, spent hung I should be worried about ?

Are these stomach cramps or uterine cramps? If they're uterine cramps, do you often get cramps before your period begins?

They are uterine. I do get ten before my period but like 4 days before not 10...that's why I'm worried hihi

Well, your timing might be off. Even the most regular of cycles has a standard deviation of 2-3 days (meaning regular cycles still often fluctuate by a few days), and sometimes cycles shift. So, unless these turn painful, no need not to wait it out.

If they do turn painful, and/or keep up even after your period, then it's probably worth checking in with a healthcare provider.

Thank you !! It's not painful, I just feel it. I was a bit worried it could be linked to sex (maybe he was too rough, it was my first time and it did hurt ) or condom leaked (pregnancy ?) thanks again

Again if the cramps continue after your period, or they continue should you skip a period, or should they get worse, I'd suggest, then, you check in with a healthcare provider. But they won't be about injury during intercourse, as intercourse doesn't involve (and can't involve: it's not possible) any contact with the uterus.

Per the pregnancy bit:
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Excellent thank you so much! Have a very nice evening Heather!!

Wooaahh! I never knew all that. Thanks for sharing.