So thrusday I had sex for the first time it didn't hurt that bad after it didn't hurt that bad enither I didn't enjoy it to much bc there was pain then Saturday me and my bf had sex again and it was still painful is this normal? When should I expect pleasures? Or is something wrong with me?Sex
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So thrusday I had sex for the first time it didn't hurt that bad after it didn't hurt that bad enither I didn't enjoy it to much bc there was pain then Saturday me and my bf had sex again and it was still painful is this normal? When should I expect pleasures? Or is something wrong with me?-
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Re: Sex
When you say sex, what do you mean? Are you talking about only one kind of sex, like intercourse, or a bunch of different kinds of sex, like oral sex, mutual masturbation, manual sex, etc?
And with whatever kind of sex where you had pain, did you stop, tell your partner you were having pain, and then try different things to see if you two could find out what felt good rather than hurt?
And with whatever kind of sex where you had pain, did you stop, tell your partner you were having pain, and then try different things to see if you two could find out what felt good rather than hurt?
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