Im a nervous wreck!!

[Bree2345]

About two day ago i lost my virginity he tried to go unprotected but i stopped him and told him to put on a condom. He stopped and fumbled around as if he put one on but when we were having sex i couldn't tell. When we were done it was more than one wet spot on the bed and they were sticky and had blood in one of the spots. I asked again if he used a condom he said yes then got up to go to the bathroom. I didn't feel and semen dripping out of me when i stood up or felt any come out when i peed neither did i see any. Now im feeling nauseous and am scared im pregnant. He continues to say he used a condom but why were there stickh spots on the bed and why do i feel nauseous. Please help.

[Sam W]

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You mentioned some concerns about whether he used a condom. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=5117


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