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Hi, so my boyfriend and I fingered for about 4 times now, and i was just wondering since I haven't gotten my period yet (maybe some what next week it would arrive or something) and i've been paranoid ever since! He keeps telling me that he touched me without anything on his fingers but I cant help but panic on wether i'm Pregnant or not. Please do help me since, I dont want to tell my mom and im just scared to be pregnant at a young age. but can you get pregnant when you get fingered? even if theres nothing on the finger, but can you seriously get pregnant with fingering w/ a bit of semen, etc or its just all laughs? please do help me so i can calm the hell down. thanks

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