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So my boyfriend and I have never had intercourse but we fool around sometimes. About a week ago he ejaculated onto my lower stomach and I couldn't tell if it got near the top of my genitalia (hardly even in the like clitoris range). We always clean up afterwards. i was on the next to last day of my birth control pill cycle which I had been taking daily, although a week beforehand I had missed a day and didn't realize I was behind. I was still taking them daily, just one day behind. My period always comes later in the sugar pill week, and sometimes it doesn't even come until the last day (I take BC due to an irregular cycle), but I usually get it by now (I have two days left on the sugar pill week). I did some at home pregnancy tests (the sugar one and the toothpaste one) and they both said I wasn't pregnant. So basically, my boyfriend came above my clitoris on my lower stomach, and my birth control may not have been working as well as it should have, and my already irregular period cycle isn't really letting me know much, but the at home tests said negative. I know it is very unlikely and I am probably just freaking out over a very small possibility, but I wanted to get a second opinion and see what someone else thinks. I'm going to give it until Sunday night before I make a doctor's appointment.

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