good pegging porn?

[bikinksterboy]

is there any porn or erotica, whether written or visual regarding pegging where the woman (or possibly i guess even tho i haven't seen it) trans man doesn't humiliate or belittle the man? since it's almost like the porn itself is shaming viewers for enjoying it, and i know there are people who enjoy being called names, even i do sometimes, but strap-on sex is one of those things I don't associate with it, and i think it creates a false idea that males who like being on the "receiving" end of anal are always ultra-kinky and want to be slapped around and emasculated

[Mo]

I'm sure this is something that's out there! Per our policies for the message boards we can't link to any sites that are adult-oriented so this isn't something we can help you find directly, but I do have a thought: if you're at all fandom-oriented then a fanfiction site like Archive of Our Own might be a good place to look.
One thing I think fanfiction or other original free fiction has going for it over commercially-produced porn or erotica is that authors are generally writing with themselves or a specific, small audience in mind, so there's less pressure to conform to any sort of industry standard in terms of content - and in fact a lot of people are specifically creating what they aren't seeing elsewhere. As with any self-publishing community the quality and style will vary a lot, but there is probably someone writing the sort of content you might be into.