Rubbing dried out semen on vagina. Chances of Pregnancy?

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Rubbing dried out semen on vagina. Chances of Pregnancy?

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Hi this is my first time using this forum and it seems like this website is filled with very reliable people that know what they're talking about. I am a very paranoid person when it comes to the chances of my girlfriend getting pregnant from anything really. So on January 2nd me and her were fooling around and she gave me a blowjob that was messy and eventually I began to masturbate because I wasn't finishing from the blowjob and she had her hands in her lap (while her pants were still on) and she then took her pants and panties off and began rubbing her vagina. So what I am worrying about is if there was some sperm from the pre-ejaculate on her hand mixed with the saliva from the messy blowjob even though her hands may have been slightly dried from them being on her pants and perhaps even wiped on her pants. And if there was any sperm possibly on her hands what would the chances be of her getting pregnant from her rubbing her vagina. (I also did not have a previous ejaculation that day and only ruminated so I know that limits the chance of any sperm being in the pre-ejaculate) Something else my paranoid brain has considered is if there could have been any sperm on my hand from when I masturbated even though none of the ejaculate touched my hand. I am worried because my penis was still wet from the blowjob when I masturbated. I am wondering if any sperm could be possibly on the shaft of my penis from the pre-ejacualte that came out during the blowjob.

Something else I've also been worried about is that during that same sexual encounter I masturbated and finished on her face. And she immediately went to wash the semen off her face and wipe her hands and face with a towel but she didn't wash her hands or wipe them very thoroughly, but she did wash them with only water and then wiped them with a towel. Then about 10-15 minutes later she went into her room to put on another pair of panties and she said she brushed her finger against the surface of her vagina for about 10 seconds but her hands were dry. So I am also worried about if there could have been any sperm left alive on her finger and if there was, what would the chance of her getting pregnant be from how she touched her vagina for about 10 seconds.

The day after this all happened (January 3rd) my girlfriend's breasts began to feel sore but it was about time that her PMS symptoms would begin to show up for her next period so I'm not sure if that could mean anything when it comes to pregnancy. It is now January 11th and she has been getting the usual signs of her period arriving soon but I'm still worried and very paranoid.

I'm sorry for the very long post I'm just very very very very paranoid when it comes to all of this. Thank you so much for your time.
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Re: Rubbing dried out semen on vagina. Chances of Pregnancy?

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