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Angeldelight123
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Is this a risk?

Unread post by Angeldelight123 »

Hi there,

Recently me and my boyfriend were fooling around sexually, NO intercourse happened whatsoever. But he did ejaculate on my stomach, I made sure to cover my genital area with my hand before he did this so nothing would get there, but when he finished, his fluid started to run down my body and it reached/touched my hand that was covering the area, I did not move it until everything was cleaned up. However I'm still paranoid in case something did get to my vagina, my boyfriend assured me that nothing went near me but I'm still overthinking this, I'm also on the pill.
Should I be so concerned? Please help.

Thanks
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Re: Is this a risk?

Unread post by Karyn »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
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