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PLEASE HELP!!! My boyfriend and I were fooling around the other day. We like to "experiment" with each other, however we've never had sex. He had been fingering me that day and I proceeded to give him a handjob. However there was some pre cum and he wiped it off with his finger and then wiped it on his shorts. He never ejaculated when I gave him the hand job. And he hadn't ejaculated in about a week. However we went and made some food and he washed is hands. And then I slept for about an 30 minutes and after that he proceeded to finger me. I was wondering if there could be any residue on his fingers even though he washed them and there was such a big time gap in between. However I am a very anxious person and I'm really worried I am pregnant and I think my body is giving me the symptoms of it because I am so worried about this. PLEASE HELP!!! Thank you.

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