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my boyfriend and i have had oral sex and he fingered me before as well but he has never inserted his penis inside my vagina so i think im still a virgin. a month ago, we tried something new and he rubbed his penis against my vagina and he came on my mons pubis area. however, we've never actually had sex or any sort of insertion. how will I know if im not a virgin anymore? i usually have irregular periods but im usually only a few days early or late.i was supposed to get my period a few weeks after that incident, but i still haven't had my period. im three weeks late. is there any way I can be pregnant? also i have been stressed for awhile and i traveled for a week around the time i was supposed to get my period. could that be the reason why im late? please answer.

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