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Several weeks ago, I was messing around with my boyfriend when my period ended the day before. He came on my stomach and on his hands, then fingered me. We're both still virgins, so there was no penetration. I read many forums and websites online that there was a slim to no chance of being pregnant with this method, so I was not worried. Flash forward to one month later, I missed my period. I'm 5 days late now, but I'm not experiencing any tender breasts or dizziness. I did, however, receive very light brown dots in my underwear a few days ago, nausea last night, and bloatedness. I've become very gassy and my stomach growls nonstop when I'm not hungry. This is the first time this has ever happened to my body. Is this PMS or a sign that I could be pregnant? I'm only 18, about to graduate in high school with college ahead of me; I'm freaking out!

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