So my girlfriend and I fooled around on 8th March, I fingered her and I think I had precum on my finger. I am not sure though as I probably touched her before fingering her and the chances of it getting wiped off is still there. She got a periods 2 days later.
Now almost a month after it happened, my girlfriend is seeing brown discharge through her vagina. She is not sure what that is, and it is freaking us out!
I know the chances of pregnancy are very very low, but is there any chance? Should I be worried?
Spotting after a month of fingering?
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Re: Spotting after a month of fingering?
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