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Do's and Don't's for the first time
Posted: Mon May 15, 2017 3:38 am
by lilmisshelpless
So my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex for the first time. He has experience but I'm still a virgin and I want to go in with some prior knowledge with stuff I can do for him. Do's and donts of the bedroom I guess
Re: Do's and Don't's for the first time
Posted: Mon May 15, 2017 4:23 am
by Sam W
Hi lilmisshelpless,
The best advice I can give is for you and he to talk about what feels good, what you're interested in trying, and what's off the table before you start having sex, and then keep communication going during sex. People's sexual likes and dislikes are so variable that talking to your partner is going to be far more informative than general sex advice. These two articles can give you some advice on how to have these conversations:
Be a Blabbermouth! The Whats, Whys and Hows of Talking About Sex With a Partner
Yes, No, Maybe So: A Sexual Inventory Stocklist