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Recently i fingered my girlfriend, she had put her hand down my trousers and felt my penis, i didn't ejaculate or anything but i was erect, we arent sure if anything got on her hand or not, then I fingered her about 4 or 5 minutes after, im not sure if my hand touched hers, im almost sure my hand was dry before i fingered her, 2 days later she got her period, she said it was very heavy and sore, it ended 3 days after starting, she is now experiencing lower abdomen pain and feels ill, she also has swelling on her lower neck and shoulders, is it possible that she is pregnant or is it more likely to be an infection and if so what is it?

Hello rabbit,

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