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Pregnancy Scare

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jnjn
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Location: Philippines

Pregnancy Scare

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Hello. So I have this scenario where my girlfriend is playing my d*** while we're on a trip to her home. But she's playing it from outside my jeans and during our trip, she stopped playing it midway through our trip until we got home. At her home, while she was changing clothes, I touched my penis because it was not properly positioned in my underwear. After touching it, I wiped my hands onto my shirt. Then after 5-10 minutes, I touched her vagina. But not fingered it. But I did touched it and it was wet. I'm just concerned because there might be precum the time I touched my penis. I'm sure there might be sweat from my penis mixed in the precum if it has any at all. It was 5-6 days after her last period. What are the chances of pregnancy? Or is there any? Just to summarize it all, I just "adjust" my penis. Please help me! I can't sleep, I'm feeling anxious about this
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Redskies
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Re: Pregnancy Scare

Unread post by Redskies »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
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