i don't know if i'm masturbating right?

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potterparty
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i don't know if i'm masturbating right?

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I started masturbation a few months ago after my friend told be she did it. I've looked at loads of different websites and tried the techniques, and i don't know if i'm doing it right and just not being patient. after a while I just start shivering uncontrollably and it's quite uncomfortable. i never manage to orgasm and it's just kind of boring and weird. i don't like twitching as i masturbate, and i need help - do i need to hang in there and keep going? or do i need to change my technique?
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Re: i don't know if i'm masturbating right?

Unread post by Heather »

There's no right way to masturbate.

There's just what any given person finds, over time and at any given time, is what they like; what feels good to them.
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Re: i don't know if i'm masturbating right?

Unread post by Alice O »

hey potterparty,

in addition to heather's response, i think you might be interested in checking this scarleteen article out: Sexual Response & Orgasm: A Users Guide
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