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Okay well this is the issue, I have sex with my bf but it is always un-protected because of where we live (it's complicated). I don't want any judgements because he never finishes in me, we are super duper careful and don't do it too often. Anyway about a month ago we had sex like normal and everything went as normal yet he was scared I could fall pregnant but I told him it was okay (ps it was just after my period) and now I am on my period so it's all gotta be okay right? Well no. Let me give some back story; before having sex my period was irregular, short and not painful yet since having sex I have extreme cramps, a heavy flow however it is pretty regular. I usually have sex twice every weekend however before my period this month the last time I had any sexual activity was two weeks ago (summer break) and this month my period has gone back to how it was before (yet with some bad cramps at the beginning) is there somthing wrong with me? What is happening? Could I be pregnant? Help me please I am so scared

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You mentioned your period changing over time, and not being able to get birth control. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=6225
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