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hi! me and my boyfriend were making out and one thing led to another and i was giving him a handjob. he did cum, but there was barely anything on my hand. i wiped it off immediately. about 20 minutes later, i went to the bathroom and had to change my tampon. my tampon string had ended up getting pushed inside me so i had to put my fingers deep in it to reach it. it didn't occur to me to wash my hands before, even though i normally do regardless of a handjob or not. i am absolutely terrified that i'll get pregnant, as i am 14 and this is the first time i have ever done anything close to this. is there a likely chance of it? please help! i have an anxiety disorder on top of normal worry and know that i cannot ask my mom for help with this. is there anything i can do to decrease the possibility?

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