cant cum
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rawjebs
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cant cum
I am not quite sure if this is normal, or if something is wrong. I masturbate often and have been sexually active before but I have never actually came. I am able to have an orgasm but I never cum. Is this normal or am I doing something wrong?
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Jacob
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Re: cant cum
Hi Rawjebs!
I usually think 'cum' means orgasm, but you say that you *do* orgasm... do you mean ejaculate?
If so, that's not something every-body does. As I understand it, it's shrouded in a lot of misunderstanding about how our bodies work, and something that is playyed up very often in porn and places like that, as more common or more dramatic, than most people experience it to be. We also unfortunately don't have much accurate research into what 'female' ejaculate is, or isn't... but what we do know from all the other advice we give about pleasure and orgasm, is how different pleasure can be between different people, both in terms of how we achieve it and how we 'express' it.
So nothing about what you describe sounds like not-normal or wrong!
Does that help? Are you generally enjoying yourself otherwise?
I usually think 'cum' means orgasm, but you say that you *do* orgasm... do you mean ejaculate?
If so, that's not something every-body does. As I understand it, it's shrouded in a lot of misunderstanding about how our bodies work, and something that is playyed up very often in porn and places like that, as more common or more dramatic, than most people experience it to be. We also unfortunately don't have much accurate research into what 'female' ejaculate is, or isn't... but what we do know from all the other advice we give about pleasure and orgasm, is how different pleasure can be between different people, both in terms of how we achieve it and how we 'express' it.
So nothing about what you describe sounds like not-normal or wrong!
Does that help? Are you generally enjoying yourself otherwise?
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