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I can orgasm, but I can't come

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I can orgasm, but I can't come

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I'm 14, and been masturbating for a couple years now, though the level of enjoyment has progressed as I've learned more about my body. I do have a small problem. I can't come. I'll be able to reach a point where it feels like I'm really close, and It feels awesome...but then, it stops. No liquid, I hit my climax, and then it stops. I know you guys have said to other people that not everyone can do so, but do you have any tips?
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Re: I can orgasm, but I can't come

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Hi hellarad,

So, first off, what kind of body parts are involved here? Because if your have a vagina, then squirting/ejaculating is actually not that common with orgasm.

Beyond that, if it feels awesome and you're enjoying yourself, is there a particular reason you're worried about the lack of fluids?
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