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Can't cum when getting head

Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2017 5:46 pm
by Victor
Every time I get head I feel so close then it feels really good but it also feels like I'm about to pee even tho I went befor : / this is really bugging me is there something wrong with me ? I'm 14 years old

Re: Can't cum when getting head

Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2017 7:59 am
by Sam W
Hi Victor,

Nope, there's nothing wrong with you. There is no sex act that guarantees you'll orgasm (and an act that makes you orgasm one day may not make you orgasm the next). Sometimes you can also be so focused on reaching an orgasm that you put pressure on yourself that actually makes it harder to orgasm. When you and your partner are engaging in oral sex, do you feel like your main focus is on pleasure? Or are you focused on reaching an orgasm?

You may want to peek at this article, it has a ton of good information on orgasms and how they come to be: Sexual Response & Orgasm: A Users Guide