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Me(20) and my girlfriend(21) engaged in sexual activity on the 24th of Aug (This month).She said she would get her next period on the 8th on next month and had her period on the 8th of this month.(WHICH MEANS I CALCULATED AND SHE MIGHT BE OVULATING ACCORDING TO SOME WEBSITES) (She keeps a notebook and times it roughly). I fingered her for a total of 3 times (with intervals) and we had no penetration at all. My penis and her vagina were never unclothed at the same time AT ALL. We rubbed our genitals together but that was while I was wearing my underwear AND short pants and she was wearing her underwear.(but it is slightly possible that after adjusting a slight part of my penis was outside. i.e the elastic of my short pants kept my penis straight). The only concern I have is each time I fingered her I went super deep however it is possible that this while adjusting my penis I touched pre cum and then also it is highly possible I pulled my shorts up so the contacted precum would have been rubbed off. Also I kissed her for roughly 20 secs after such adjustments and might've gripped the blanket once or twice before. I never ejaculated during the entire session ( I AM SURE OF THIS ) and my last ejaculation was on the 23rd in the morning. I peed several times after that. My bare penis might have touched her once while she was wearing underwear but that too was just one dab not even more than 1 second. However I still feel paranoid that she might get pregnant. It's not been 72 hours yet but I don't want her to take the pill as the side effects might mess her up and something within me says it's unnecessary as nothing will happen.
However my other part says that 1% chance will happen. Am I being paranoid ? Should I make her take the pill? I haven't slept for past 2 days and my eyes hurt from the research. All I found is that pre cum contains very low sperm content and some have it and some don't. However those rare cases where pre cum has caused pregnancy, it has been due to use of the pull out method. Considering a totally pessimistic approach even if I used the pre cum on my finger and pushed it all the way to her cervix it was very, very little but then again she was ovulating possibly which is more scary. I really don't think anything should happen but my girlfriend is calm about it. PLEASE HELP ME I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO !(NO CONDOMS WERE USED OR ANY PILLS) (if you can tell me if she will get pregnant it'll be certainly appreciated however I really don't want her to be. Links would be appreciated as well)

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