cant keep it up...

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b3RC1LAK
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cant keep it up...

Unread post by b3RC1LAK »

I've hooked up with this girl once or twice, and while making out, have little trouble acquiring an erection. However, my penis...gives up after only a few minutes and is completely unresponsive. I don't have any less desire for sex, certain parts of my body just aren't cooperating. I've also noticed fewer erections overall in the past few weeks.
I am 18 years old and in good health.
Not (currently) taking medication that might cause ED.
Not drinking or smoking
Never undergone surgery
Not currently suffering from depression
What is happening here?
Sam W
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Re: cant keep it up...

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi b3RC1LAK,

We can't give an exact diagnosis for what's causing this, but what I can tell you is that in young people erections issues are often psychological. Being nervous (including being nervous about not being able to get an erection) can make it harder for you to get and stay aroused, so that's one possible culprit. You can read more about erectile issues and how to manage them here: ED: Why You Don't Have to Get So Down About Not Getting It Up
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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