Anxiety

[Allybannsiders]

I need help with anxiety

I take my combined pill everyday at half 11am never have missed one.

Haven't had actual sexual intercourse since August with my boyfriend but still scared of pregnancy every month

My withdrawal bleed should be here today but it hasn't arrived and Its probably because I'm stressing out.

I worry that pregnancy could occur because my boyfriend has masturbated in the bathroom and it has got onto the toilet seat or toilet paper and I have then used them.

I also worry that because he lifted me round his waist and carried me whilst he was wearing jean unbuttoned and his boxers that this could cause pregnancy because I had no underwear on even though he never ejaculated at all

Can someone calm my nerves on these issues so I can relax enough for my period to come, I've already done 3 negative pregnancy tests today but still no calmer

[Sam W]

Hi Allybannersides,

The first step is to look at this article, if you haven't already, to see if any of the reasons given apply to you: You're Not Pregnant. Why Do You think You Are?

If you're having anxiety that you simply cannot shake, that's a sign that it's time to check in with a mental healthcare provider. Do you know how you would go about connecting to such a resource?

[Allybannsiders]

It's the direct genital to genital bit that's worrying me because if when he carried me what if the tip had poked out of the top of his boxers, literally I was in his arms less than a minute but it still scares me.

This was Saturday and its now monday and my withdrawal hasn't arrived

[Sam W]

We made it clear in your previous post about this incident that we do not engage with these kind of fears. If you want to address the other topics we've mentioned in this thread, that is something we can do.

[Allybannsiders]

Period started last night, drama over nothing again usual