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So I'm nearly 18 and I'm on the pill and my boyfriend always uses condoms I always take my pill at the same time every night and have never missed one however at the end of august we had sex with both forms of protection but they had been left in the car whilst I was at work and when I came back to them they were both warm ever since then I've been constantly stressing and I had my withdrawal bleed which was lighter and only lasted about 3 and a half days I've taken 3 pregnancy tests since all have been negative but I can't stop thinking about it. I've also had weird feelings in my stomach and near my vagina, been lightheaded quite often, one of my breasts is sore and the lighter period

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