Scarleteen

I’m in a relationship with a girl and I’ve never had sex with a guy, I’ve been fingered and I don’t think I’ve ever “lost my virginity” however, we’ve been talking and agreed to use a dildo and I wanted to know if it’s normal for someone to use a dildo to take someone else’s virginity like she wants

Virginity isn't something for someone to "take," period: it's not a thing, it's a just a word or idea some people use. If by virginity, you mean, having some kind -- be it specific or general -- of sex with someone else for the first time, for some people, is that with a dildo in the mix? Yep.

And if that's what someone wants to do for themselves, as some kind of first time, they get to do that. Does that (some kind of sex with a dildo) sound like something you and the girl you're involved with want to do?