Freaking out a little
Posted: Thu Oct 16, 2014 9:52 pm
My OBGYN put me on the Depo shot with the combined pill (TriNessa) simultaneously because the shot alone caused bleeding. The first month, the pain was unbearable for a few days, but less than before. The second month had unbearable pain for only two days and the rest was quite painless. This month, I got the shot three days before the 12-week deadline, and I had a small amount of spotting on Tuesday of this week (woke up first thing, wiped and there was blood, but none showed up on pad or anything) but haven't had anything since. My doctor told me multiple times that combining the pill and shot would not decrease the effectiveness of either one, but when I looked on the page you guys have about combining methods, it said it does. That scares me a bit, since my boyfriend and I have been taking a few more risks than usual. At one point, we had sex; he withdrew (we use the withdrawal method along with hormones) but ejaculated on my buttock. After several minutes, it slid down onto my outer labia, and I wiped it up a little while later. I think because of the hair and the location (more toward my urethra), as well as the fact that it had been exposed to air, that time wasn't a high risk. However, pre-ejaculate can contain sperm if he hasn't urinated between an ejaculation and the next intercourse, and he hadn't several times this month. I didn't have as many ovulation pains this month, either (ovulation pains being not true ovulation but rather pain of ovarian cysts rupturing, which happens typically several times a month).
It seemed as though, in terms of period (withdrawal bleed, really) length, they shortened significantly. I'm not sure if getting the shot the day after the pills stopped working might've made my period late. It's only late by a day or so at the moment (it normally starts on Wednesday or Thursday now that I'm using both hormonal methods), and I know it could very well be the amount of hormones, but I'm still panicking. I'm listening to new music to distract myself and studying for a test, but is there any other way to avoid panicking until I do get my bleed/take a test (if necessary)?
I'm trying very hard not to panic, but my boyfriend has gotten worried about the situation as well, which isn't helping me much. I think this means next times we have sex he needs to withdraw and ejaculate away from my 'hind end' and that he needs to urinate after every single time, as that procedure before greatly helped me stay calm and has worked for us for a while with no problems.
I have no other early pregnancy symptoms - no nausea or vomiting, no frequent urination or breast tenderness, and I haven't at all this month.
Sorry this post is long and I'm probably overreacting since it's been only a day or so, but I felt like posting this would give me some measure of comfort so I can sleep tonight. If I do start my period, I'll add a reply to this explaining that I did so you don't have to worry. Thanks so much for this forum - I'm glad this has been my first true scare and that you're here to help!!!!
It seemed as though, in terms of period (withdrawal bleed, really) length, they shortened significantly. I'm not sure if getting the shot the day after the pills stopped working might've made my period late. It's only late by a day or so at the moment (it normally starts on Wednesday or Thursday now that I'm using both hormonal methods), and I know it could very well be the amount of hormones, but I'm still panicking. I'm listening to new music to distract myself and studying for a test, but is there any other way to avoid panicking until I do get my bleed/take a test (if necessary)?
I'm trying very hard not to panic, but my boyfriend has gotten worried about the situation as well, which isn't helping me much. I think this means next times we have sex he needs to withdraw and ejaculate away from my 'hind end' and that he needs to urinate after every single time, as that procedure before greatly helped me stay calm and has worked for us for a while with no problems.
I have no other early pregnancy symptoms - no nausea or vomiting, no frequent urination or breast tenderness, and I haven't at all this month.
Sorry this post is long and I'm probably overreacting since it's been only a day or so, but I felt like posting this would give me some measure of comfort so I can sleep tonight. If I do start my period, I'll add a reply to this explaining that I did so you don't have to worry. Thanks so much for this forum - I'm glad this has been my first true scare and that you're here to help!!!!