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Hey, I’m really paranoid about this so I was hoping I could get some professional help here. On New Years (about a week ago) I was with my boyfriend and we ended up kissing and touching each other. We’ve never had sex and don’t plan on having it anytime soon. Anyways (sorry to go into detail) I ended up giving him a hand job (he did not ejaculate and I did not feel any pre cum). Shortly after, I’d say about a minute or so i fingered myself for about 1 minute before realizing my mistake. I’m not sure if I’m pregnant or not and I know the chances are low but I’m looking for a second opinion...I’m super paranoid about this. I don’t track my period so I’m not sure when it should be coming but I’m stressing out so much that I’m probably delaying it if it’s even coming .. thanks I’m advance.

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