Scarleteen

I’ve been masturbating for almost a year and it started out with just 1 finger and now to 2. Since I started it’s been hard to get myself going and I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried laying on a bed, “turning myself on” or whatever, I also watch a lot of porn, I don’t know if that’s relevant but still. I don’t know what to do and I really want to fix whatever is wrong because I REALLY enjoy those 30 seconds of pleasure I get.

Hi wowza0306,

There are a few different things you could try to feel sustained pleasure during masturbation. Before I start suggesting things, can you give me a sense of how much experimenting you've done with different ways to masturbate? Have you stuck solely to using your fingers of have you tried other techniques as well?