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i was wondering if u could help me i am feeling reallllly paranoid at the moment and worried. me and a boy took part in a sexual act to cut the long story short, i was giving him a hand job and i am assuming there was pre-cum as it felt quite wet around it. I was fully clothed and he didn't finger me or anything and there was no masturbation involved on my part; he was touching my thigh but i had my clothes on anyways, but 10 minutes later i washed my hands- cant remember if i washed them with hot water or anything. But what i'm worried about is that i touched my clothes or maturbated later/ and got on my belongings before hand and worried if i got anything like precum on there when i went to the toilet or anything or under my fake nails. please can u help me? i am not sure if im overreacting. was this a risk of pregnancy?. i was on the second to the last day on my period. i also have experienced mood swings and bowel issues and tummy pains and just worried if it was from this. I am so worried. please help.

Hi annerose,

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
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