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Hello.

So me and my girlfriend were fooling around last week and I had some pre cum on my penis. I believe it is a clear liquid that comes out when I'm aroused. I think it was not much and it was almost dry but I am not very sure about that. She was actually more careful than I am and told me to wipe it off. So I wiped it off with my fingers and then I used a tissue to clean my fingers. She also helped me with cleaning and I believe my fingers were dry but I am not sure about that either. A couple of minutes after that I touched her vagina and we made out a lot.

I am worried if she might get pregnant from this. I have read a lot of discussions and the majority stated that the chance is low. It also depends if the guy urinated since his last ejaculation. My last ejaculation was the day before and I have urinated at least twice after that.

If this helps, this was done 10 days into her cycle so I hope that provides more insight into my situation.

We are both very worried about whether there is a risk of pregnancy in this situation. She has been crying every night and unable to sleep and I am aware that all that stress will delay her period and make us worry even more. I cannot think clearly about anything due to this issue.

Any help is appreciated.

Thank you.

Mlk25, I am afraid that we do not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

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