Scareddd???

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Scareddd???

Unread post by rubennn1996 »

So this might sound stupid, but I would just like reassurance! So today I went to visit an old ex girlfriend.. we hung out talked and soon started cuddling! We have no feelings for each other.. or at least I don’t lol i was just horny and wanted a lil something!! She started playing with my little friend down there but refused to give me head.. she climbed on top of me and we dry humped with our clothes on(i had just my boxers and she of course had her panties and sweat pants still on) she got off of me so she could start rubbing me off and quickly grabbed lotion. I came so fast it went everywhere... :( I felt bad but she cleaned it all up for me. So long story short she wasn’t on me when I came but she pulled my boxers back up and climbed back on me.. would it be possible for her to get pregnant even after I came on her bed not even on her! Like would my cum go through my boxers like if I leaked a lil bit from the tip.. but she had clothes on the whole time... I’m just worried cause NO CANT HAVE THAT HAPPEN
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Re: Scareddd???

Unread post by Sam W »

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