Am I Pregnant? Or Just Anxious?

[bloop1234]

On February 2nd, last month, I had anal sex with my boyfriend. He used the withdrawal method and did not cum anywhere near my vagina.

The next day, February 3rd, I got my period. It was heavy and lasted around 5 days.
However, my cycle this month is currently 44 days long, meaning my period is missing or late.

I am also having signs of pregnancy such as:
- Once swollen/sore breasts that are now tender
- Large quantity of watery/egg white cervical fluid that has now decreased to the sticky substance
- Once low and firm cervix that is now high, firm, and closed
- Increase urge to use the bathroom

Also, to make things worse, my sister told me about this superstition that “if you break open an egg with two yolks in it, that means you or someone you know is pregnant or already is pregnant.” And I broke open an egg two weeks ago with two yolks in it, and I am a very superstitious person.

My friends all say that there’s nothing to worry about but I don’t know. My boyfriend said everything will be fine, but for some reason I can’t get it through my head.

[Sam W]

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