Scared

[Questions123]

Hi I know you can’t really ask questions about pregnancy unless you truly are pregnant, but I noticed some questions involving like what someone should do if they think they could be. So I’m not sure if you can answer this.. but okay so I think it was March 9th I had been off my period for like two/three days, my boyfriend came over to visit, we’ve never had unprotected sex or actual sex at all. But he came over and things got intense i guess. We didn’t have sex, but we both had our underwear on and he was humping me. I do take birth control but sometimes I’m inconsistent, he didn’t cum, just Pre-Cum and I know like the chances are so so small, but I’m just worrying myself sick and I think it’s just because I feel bad. And I haven’t got my period. It should be here, and I’m just wondering if I should even take a test?

[Heather]

Yeah, gotta give you a nope on this. I suggest you use this tool for this question, as it answers it for you clearly: The Pregnancy Panic Companion[/b].

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