Homo or Straight?

Questions and discussion about your sexual lives, choices, activities, ideas and experiences.
Nwabos
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Homo or Straight?

Unread post by Nwabos »

i had this discussion with my other fellow friends and we couldn't get our heads around it, that if a heterosexual guy prefers and does anal sex with a girl ...not that he prefers it better than vagina though. my question is could that have some implication that the guy is bisexual because he does anal sex with a girl and actually loves it and has never done sex with a guy.
Sam W
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Re: Homo or Straight?

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi Nwabos,

It's a common misconception that liking anal sex (either giving or receiving it) makes a man gay or bisexual. But the truth is, sexual orientation is not determined by what sexual activities a person enjoys. Instead it has to do with what genders a person is attracted to romantically and sexually. So, there are gay and bi men who do not enjoy anal sex, and there a straight men who really like it. Does that make sense?
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