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Hi,
me and my girlfriend were messing around and one thing lead to another and i performed manual sex on her.
i am just worried because im not sure if there was any precum or edjaculate on my hands or not. i know that in a post made by corinna some time back states that this is not a pregnancy but i just need to be totally sure. my girlfriend says shes on the pill for nearly 2 years and that she has never miss a doseage but im just afraid that it has failed.

if some could reply to this i would be most greatful
thanks x

Well since she has been on the pill for so long I feel like there shouldn’t be a problem, but if you are that worried you should discuss taking a pregnancy test with your girlfriend because then you guys would be know for sure.

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