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Hello. I know this question has been asked a lot, but I'm just really worried. This happened in the last week of May. We were just kissing, then one thing led to another. We both have our clothes on and there was no penetration. Then, my boyfriend fingered me after he ejaculated. He did it multiple times and kept on adjusting himself. He said that he washed his hands and that there were no sperms in his fingers. If there were any, he said that he didn't went really deep.

I have regular periods and it's supposed to come on the second week of June. I think I'm already delayed.

I've been hearing stories of people who got pregnant from fingering and it really scares me.

I haven't been sleeping well for two weeks. Is it possible for me to become pregnant? Thank you in advance for your response.

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