Pregnancy anxiety

[Fangie]

My boyfriend and I had sex using a condom and he pulled out as soon as he ejaculated but there seemed to be some white fluid on the bottom side of his penis at the base of the condom. We checked the shaft and didn’t seem find any semen, is it still possible that some may have leaked out and gotten into my vagina? i’m worried about getting pregnant

[Heather]

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

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We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
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Just for the record, it's common to see fluids like that because your own body makes them -- vaginal lubrication, cervical mucus -- and also because additional lube you added or that was on the condom can get kind of whipped up and look like that, too.
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