Scarleteen

i am practising start/stop method and since then i am really enjoying masturbating (: but i am unable to stroke slowly as it feels less pleasurable than faster strokes and to prevent early ejaculation we need to have slow speed as far as i know so how can i maintain that slow speed to get longer ejaculation?

and is it possible that i ejaculate when i wants? means can i masturbate until i wants and then ejaculate when i really wants to do ? i m using start/stop method but i exploded after 2-3 stops sometimes not even 1 stop ): very unpredictable and unconsistent ):

All of these are just things that you practice over time, but which, even when you do, you just probably ultimately won’t have complete control over.

But you also get to do things you enjoy even if that means you ejaculate more quickly: there isn’t one right amount of time, after all, just what you enjoy.

yes i m enjoying but i cant maintain that slow strokes as it feels less enjoyable than fast strokes,fast strokes is sexy/enjoyable but i got ejaculation faster because of it ):

As Heather said above, it's ok to focus on what feels good during masturbation, even if you ejaculate more quickly. Is there a particular reason you're focusing on taking longer to ejaculate instead of on pleasure?

as longer ejaculation will lasts pleasure for longer time too,so i just wants to extend that pleasurable time if it can be.