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Genital to Genital contact with Condom on!

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Genital to Genital contact with Condom on!

Unread post by rose_x »

My boyfriend and I were fooling around last week. He had a condom on and he tried to insert his penis (with condom on) into my vagina but it didn't get in (could be because I was too tight). Does this possess risk of pregnancy? I am a few days late of my period and wanted to check. To clarify he didn't ejaculate and when he tried to enter he had the condom on.
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Re: Genital to Genital contact with Condom on!

Unread post by Sam W »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

You mentioned some worries about "tightness." I've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=7651

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
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