pregnancy scare

[Kishiash]

Recently my boyfriend and I had sex but things got a bit too heated up during foreplay and we ended up rubbing our naked genitals each other’s I know that he had precum and there were times where he pushed against the entrance of my vagina but he never put it in.
We also had anal sex without protection and I regret it so much that we never used protection. After all that he put a condom on and we proceeded to normal sex but is there a high chance of getting pregnant in this case? I’m honestly so paranoid right now that i cannot stay calm. Please help me asap.

[Sam W]

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

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• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
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: You mentioned some regrets about not using contraception. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=7813

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