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Alice O
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Re: Hey
What do you think Rajaman? Your thoughts are most important here!
(If you are wanting to read a Scarleteen piece on porn, check out: Making Sense of Sexual Media.)
(If you are wanting to read a Scarleteen piece on porn, check out: Making Sense of Sexual Media.)
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rajaman
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Re: Hey
i think watching porn makes me aroused but it feels unnatural arousal,natural arousal feels after more than 10 to 15 days automatically but some times without watching porn masturbation feels boring,so i am literally confused that should i watch porn or not while masturbation,there is very much nofap on the internet btw,they r saying porn and masturbation are both bad ): what's your view scarleteen btw?
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Heather
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Re: Hey
This isn't about doing anything wrong, there simply isn't anything more for us to say we have not already. You continue to essentially ask the same questions again and again: we have already discussed this with you quite a few times, so you know our take on the matter.
It also sounds like you continue to seek out other things we've already told you we know not to be credible, so clearly our opinion on these matters doesn't hold that much weight with you anyway. I'm not sure I understand why you keep asking for it, that given, but also why you continue to ask the same questions of us again and again when you have been answered, and our answers won't change.
To be clear, you primarily keep asking us if it is okay for you to be watching porn or not, or to masturbate or not, and we keep telling you that's for you to decide. Only a given person can make those choices for themselves.
At this point, if you keep asking the same question even more, we will just start ignoring, closing or deleting your threads, because giving the same answers again and again and again is not a sound use of our time or resources as an organization.
It also sounds like you continue to seek out other things we've already told you we know not to be credible, so clearly our opinion on these matters doesn't hold that much weight with you anyway. I'm not sure I understand why you keep asking for it, that given, but also why you continue to ask the same questions of us again and again when you have been answered, and our answers won't change.
To be clear, you primarily keep asking us if it is okay for you to be watching porn or not, or to masturbate or not, and we keep telling you that's for you to decide. Only a given person can make those choices for themselves.
At this point, if you keep asking the same question even more, we will just start ignoring, closing or deleting your threads, because giving the same answers again and again and again is not a sound use of our time or resources as an organization.
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