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Lolools
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Beautiful breasts
Yesterday September 19th.For the first time I saw boobs in real life.I am 15 years old 8 months 10 days old.The boobs were my bestfriends. I saw them because I was helping her change her shirt.She wasn't wearing a bra.But when I saw them I had a huge bulge in my pants.She noticed that part!But her beautiful boobs are instilled in my mind!Is this normal? I can't stop thinking of them! Should I be scared of this?
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Sam W
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Re: Beautiful breasts
Hi Lolools,
It's not unusual to find yourself thinking about the body of someone you're attracted to. However, if this is the same friend you mentioned in your last post, have you and she discussed your interest in being dating her? And did she seem comfortable with this situation when it happened?
It's not unusual to find yourself thinking about the body of someone you're attracted to. However, if this is the same friend you mentioned in your last post, have you and she discussed your interest in being dating her? And did she seem comfortable with this situation when it happened?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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Lolools
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Re: Beautiful breasts
It is not the same friend.That friend is is white.This one is black.
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Sam W
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Ah, I follow. As long as nothing happened to make you or your friend uncomfortable, it sounds like you can write this off as an accident (it wouldn't be the first time one friend has accidentally flashed another) that unintentionally resulted in you seeing something arousing.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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Lolools
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Oh it wasn't accidental!I accidentally spilled bbq sauce on her shirt.So she said come help me.Then she dragged me into the corner and took her shirt off!She said she needed "help"!Since her breasts make it so hard to dress! 
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Lolools
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So do you guys think that this is a clear sign?Or what should I do?Lolools wrote:Oh it wasn't accidental!I accidentally spilled bbq sauce on her shirt.So she said come help me.Then she dragged me into the corner and took her shirt off!She said she needed "help"!Since her breasts make it so hard to dress!
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Re: Beautiful breasts
Hey Lolools,
It sounds like you're saying you think your friend is feeling sexually and/or romantically interested in you, and this was her way of flirting? The only way of knowing for sure what she is thinking and and what she is wanting is by talking to her, so I'd suggest that as a next step!
But it's also important to check-in with yourself: How do you feel? Because what you share in the conversation will depend on that! Are you feeling interested in this friend? If so, in what way? Or do you want to just remain friends? Do you want to communicate a boundary about not changing or being naked together?
It sounds like you're saying you think your friend is feeling sexually and/or romantically interested in you, and this was her way of flirting? The only way of knowing for sure what she is thinking and and what she is wanting is by talking to her, so I'd suggest that as a next step!
But it's also important to check-in with yourself: How do you feel? Because what you share in the conversation will depend on that! Are you feeling interested in this friend? If so, in what way? Or do you want to just remain friends? Do you want to communicate a boundary about not changing or being naked together?
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Lolools
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Well a few things here.
1.Right now my mental health is completely fucked up.Just be rejected again all the emotions that have followed from that.
2.I am just not sure about my feelings towards her right now as stated my mental health is completely of the door!
3.I am completely fine seeing any of my female friends naked.But it was kinda awkward but I am gonna see naked females any way so why have it be a issue.
1.Right now my mental health is completely fucked up.Just be rejected again all the emotions that have followed from that.
2.I am just not sure about my feelings towards her right now as stated my mental health is completely of the door!
3.I am completely fine seeing any of my female friends naked.But it was kinda awkward but I am gonna see naked females any way so why have it be a issue.
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Re: Beautiful breasts
It sounds like taking some steps to address your mental health is going to be a good next step. Do you need any help figuring out how to access that help?
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Lolools
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Re: Beautiful breasts
Well I don't need help with that I know how to get it
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