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Okay so about 2-3 weeks ago me and my boyfriend were getting intimate. We’ve never had sex and I’m still a Virgin but he did finger me. But every time before I let him finger me I told him to wash his hands because he would touch his penis and he always had precum on it. So just for safety I told him to wash his hands every time before but my question is can precum still live if you wash your hands?. I got my period after this incident but it was very light brown and one day it was really red just for one day then I continued having light brown almost like spotting for about 4 days so I’m not sure if it was my actual period plus my cycle has always been all over the place with flow

I also took two first response pregnancy tests 1 week and 2 weeks after the incident and they both came back negative. But I have been having stomach pain everyday and peeing more often so I’m just nervous.

Ive also been on birth control as well for 3 years for hormonal imbalance so I don’t know if that makes a difference but I’m just really nervous and scared

Please help

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