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Hello. I am returning to Scarleteen on a new account since i forgot my old login, but I'm here to talk about my fetish. I have a pee fetish. I am a straight 14 year old male. I discovered my fetish while watching porn at some point, but I don't know exactly when. The point is, I am ashamed. Pee fetish is an incredibly scrutinized fetish from what i've seen. I am uncomfortable with my fetish, and I tell nobody about it. I see people all the time online bashing pee fetish, and it pushes me further into a shell that makes it impossible to disclose this information to anybody. I'm worried I'm going to have to keep my fetish bottled up my whole life, and will never find a partner who shares it. I just don't know where else to go with this or what to do.

I don't know if this matters but my fetish consists of being peed on, seeing girls pee themselves, and peeing myself. I am cringe-ing just writing this because I feel so ashamed of it.

Hi LifeLimes, welcome back to Scarleteen.

I'm sorry to hear that this is causing you so much discomfort and shame. Kinks of many types are incredibly common -- and in fact, it is difficult to even dictate what exactly is a fetish or kink and what is not, because what even *is* normal? You are not alone, I promise. I understand that it feels that way right now. You do not need to disclose details about your sexuality or preferences to anyone, if you are not comfortable doing so.

Undoing Sexual Shame has a helpful list of steps to help you destigmatize your sexuality. The author talks about identifying where the shame originated from, and tackling it from there.

I understand feeling scared about your whole life. Perhaps we can start with figuring out how you can become more comfortable with yourself for just today, first?