I’ve been having sex with my current partner and although I find her physically attractive. The sex isn’t doing much for me. I feel like I communicate enough during sex and we do talk about it a lot but as soon as anything actually happens between us, I find it really hard to enjoy it. I feel like she’s doing things to hard or to rough or not actually hitting the spots. When it happens I say ‘it’s hurting me’ or ‘I’m not liking this’ and then we get into a rhythm I do enjoy but then it reverts back to how it was and then I just feel like I’m repeating myself over and over and getting nowhere.
I’ve told her what I do and do not like, during the moment I say something feels good but I’ll also say something isn’t good too.
How many times would you communicate something isn’t good if the person you’re with goes back to it anyway?
Is it bad sex because we aren’t compatible?
Is it bad because I’m not into it enough?
Or is it just bad!
What else can I do to make it better for us?
She says there isn’t anything she would change about our sex life.
Thanks for the advise
