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Can I be pregnant with pre-cum?

Posted: Mon Jan 14, 2019 9:57 am
by Lucile
So here's the thing
My boyfriend and I were together at his house on saturday January 5fth. My last period was in December 20th last year, and I think I was ovulating (or at least in my ovulation window) at the time I was in my boyfriend's house. We were playing and touching each other over the clothes at first, but then he put his hands inside my underwear and touched my vagina/vulva externally (didn't go inside). He did this several times through the night and I did it with his penis too, he didn't ejaculated but was very wet with precum. He touched me before and after I did the same thing with him. Our genitals were never even close to each other, and we were fully cothed. The problem is that I don't know if he touched his penis at any time, or if he had precum on his fingers or not when he touched me; I'm pretty sure he was dry but I don't know anymore, and since then I've been stressing out.
I've had lots of pregnancy symptoms in the week after that: nausea, uneasy stomach, food adversions, gassy, tired, having lil cramps and being a little dizzy. None of these symptoms were severe though. My heart has been racing a lot, and I cannot sleep well. I'm really, really scared and I don't know what else to do. I've been reading your posts and I know in several of them you say is impossible to get pregnant this way, but I've read a lot of posts on internet looking for different points of view and they say that it is actually possible, though unlikelly. Why am I having all of these symptoms? (I've never had them before, so that's why I know is not because PMS, which just puts me in a bad mood) How unlikely is it? Could I be pregnant even if I'm sure he never ejaculated then or anytime before, if he didn't go inside my vagina and if I think he was dry?
In the past two days my symptoms were partially gone and I was more relieved. My CM is normal, my nausea disappeared and I'm eating again. But yesterday night I have this white weird stretchy discharge and this morning I'm feeling dizzy like I'm going to faint. My period is due on friday Jan 19. I'm sorry if this post is long, and if I'm asking you this even after reading your information and knowing that these symptoms may be caused by stress, but I'm really really scared. I need your help and opinion to ease my thoughts, I would really appreciate them. Thank you.

Re: Can I be pregnant with pre-cum?

Posted: Mon Jan 14, 2019 11:18 am
by Heather
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