Dildo for first time

[Tania]

I have never used dildo before for masturbation and have only used fingers. I really want to try dildo but quite worried about the idea because it could hurt while inserting inside pussy. Could you please help me with this?

[al]

Hi Tania,

If you're worried about pain with insertion, you might find From Ow! to Wow! Demystifying Painful Intercourse helpful. Usually what it comes down to is making sure that you're feeling relaxed and aroused, taking things slowly, and using lots of lube.

I hope this helps!

[Tania]

Thanks Al. I really didn't know insertion would be easy with lube and some initial pussy rubbing. I had amazing time with the dildo and it was a great orgasm. Lube was like magic and made things easy.

[Heather]

Hey, Tania, just a quick ask for you to try and use more clinical words (like vulva, for example, instead of the p-word) when you post here, if you don't mind. When people go heavy on words for genitals or sex that come from porn (or the president of the United States, for crying out loud), it can make it harder for some users to access Scarleteen because it makes it a lot more likely that net nanny and other filtering software will block us. Thanks.

[Tania]

Hi Heather, I am sorry for using the p-word for vulva in the forum. This was not intentional and was not aware about the kind of words that could be used in the forum. From now on, I would take care of my word usage.