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Hey everyone, and thanks a lot for all the help offered on this board. ♡
So, Im totally freaking out.. I had my last period December 21st. Since then, I had sexual intercourse several times with my boyfriend, who used a condom and pulled out, with one exception. This exception happened on the 19th day of my cycle (8/01). He finished inside but when we checked the condom by puting water in it, we noticed two small holes towards the base of the penis- not the tip. Because I have always had a very regular cycle of 27(max 28) days, a doctor advised against the pill. I also usually am in pain when ovulating, and this month I felt a pain like mitteschmerz on Friday 04/01.
Now, my period, for the first time in my life, is 3 or 4 days late. I do have all the usual PMS symptoms, sore breasts, pimples, headache and a feeling of wetness. But no period since Thursday/Friday.
What are the chances of pregnancy? Could stress about upcoming exams delay period? (Even though I felt that ovulation was on time?) I have been driving myself crazy these days, convinced that I'm 22 and pregnant, without a job plus I'm in a long distance relationship and scared of facing all of this without him. Thanks in advance

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