I am 13, and I can't think of anything to get erect
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Hyperion
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I am 13, and I can't think of anything to get erect
Hi, I have a small problem, I know how to.masturbate, but I can't think of anything to get me erect, please help.
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Re: I am 13, and I can't think of anything to get erect
Hi Hyperion!
It might be that nothing really turns you on at this point. And that's ok! Plenty of things can be changing at age 13.
You mention 'knowing' how to masturbate, but erections are usually associated not with knowledge but with being 'turned on' and sexually aroused by something... is that something you have experienced?
And are you saying you've never experienced an erection? Or is it just an issue when you are 'trying' to?
It might be that nothing really turns you on at this point. And that's ok! Plenty of things can be changing at age 13.
You mention 'knowing' how to masturbate, but erections are usually associated not with knowledge but with being 'turned on' and sexually aroused by something... is that something you have experienced?
And are you saying you've never experienced an erection? Or is it just an issue when you are 'trying' to?
"In between two tall mountains there's a place they call lonesome.
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
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Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
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Re: I am 13, and I can't think of anything to get erect
No I have, its just I just need something, like an erotica or something sexy to get erect
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Jacob
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Re: I am 13, and I can't think of anything to get erect
Ahah, I see I'm afraid recommending erotica isn't something we do here! I hope you can find that somewhere else.
"In between two tall mountains there's a place they call lonesome.
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
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Hyperion
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Re: I am 13, and I can't think of anything to get erect
No my problem is I can't masturbate without porn or something like that, any suggestion for that?
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Jacob
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Re: I am 13, and I can't think of anything to get erect
Hmm well I guess with that, it can be about learning to make more use of your imagination. Have you tried writing down fantasies? I think writing can be a really powerful way lots of people learn to explore what turns them on.
"In between two tall mountains there's a place they call lonesome.
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You